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Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
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⬐ beenBoutITI don't view myself as a "negative person", although I've been repeatedly diagnosed as such by "positive people" for pointing out truths that they would have preferred to ignore indefinitely. At the end-of-the-day, these "positive people" make up the bulk of humanity and the universe is constantly ridding itself of them through the natural consequences of their actions.⬐ gromyStart with The Courage to be Disliked - @stewart recommended it this weekend.⬐ crack-the-codeI think you are going about this all the wrong way. You seem to think that most people who use positive words are just putting up a facade and using these words for the sake of using them.Consider the co-worker who acknowledges hard work you do, and appreciates you for your effort. This acknowledgement gives this you a sense of accomplishment, which in turn makes you feel happier and better.
Consider the neighbor who offers help when he notices you have a problem with your car, or gives you advice that helps you solve your problem easier.
Consider the person who recognizes that you have a disability or health defect, and chooses to help you and provide you with positive reinforcement to help you focus on progress and feel better about your situation.
I think the article, and the notion of "positive people," is more than just throwing a word around. It's about people who add weight and meaning to their words through thoughtful consideration and genuine compassion.
⬐ GoToROThere will be no progress if the crap you just made is considered "awesome"...⬐ crack-the-codeWho said that it had to be considered "awesome"? And why dont you educate us on what qualifies as a mechanism for progress?⬐ GoToROyou said it: "most people who use positive words"I don't educate people that are not ready to be educated!
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This kept reminding me of "Daring Greatly"http://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Tran...
This book addresses a lot of these issues in broader sense, so it applies to all areas of life.